American child psychologists have found after years of research that paying attention to cultivating a happy personality in children is conducive to their healthy growth. How to cultivate children's happy character? You can start from the following six aspects.

First, close with the feelings between the children. In the process of cultivating a happy character, friendship plays an important role, so parents should deepen the relationship with their children, encourage children to play with their peers, so that they can learn to interact with others in a pleasant and harmonious way.

Second, provide children with the right to make decisions. Nurture happy character and guidance, control children's behavior has a close link, parents should try to give children the opportunity to know how to use their own decision-making power from an early age.

Third, teach your child to adjust his or her mental state. To make children understand that some people are happy all their lives, the secret is to have a very adaptable mental state, which makes them quickly from the disappointment to cheer up. When the child is frustrated, you can point out to him that the future is always bright, so that he can find comfort in the environment to restore the happy mood.

Fourth, limit the child's material possessiveness. Because give the child too many things will make him produce "acquisition is the source of happiness" such a kind of illusion. The child should be made to understand that happiness in life cannot be equated with the possession of material possessions alone.

Five, cultivate the child's wide range of interests. Usually pay attention to children's hobbies, provide children with a variety of interests to choose, and give the necessary guidance. Children's hobbies are wide, naturally have a happy character.

Six, keep the family life of the beautiful and harmonious. Family harmony is also a major factor in the development of children's happy character. Some data show that children who grow up in harmonious families can live happily and grow up healthily in adulthood, much more than children who grow up in unfortunate families.