Rebelliousness can occur at any time in a person's life, with the highest frequency occurring during adolescence. In the "sex" issue is no exception. Such as parents prohibit children to see sex-related books and magazines, but some people want to secretly see; do not allow attention to the opposite sex, but some people want to pay extra attention; not allowed to fall in love, but some people want to fall in love early.
Teenagers "sexual reverse psychology" can not be eradicated. This is because the sexual consciousness of young boys and girls in this period has begun to sprout, they hope to explore the mystery of sex through their own efforts, so they refuse to easily accept the concept of adults. However, during this period, their self-exploration of sex is in a fuzzy state, and all kinds of sexual confusion can not be lifted, while the surge of sexual energy in their bodies will lead to great fluctuations in sexual emotions.
Therefore, it is inevitable that they will have a "rebellious mentality" and behavior. Can not see this point, always think they "disobedient", will inevitably lead to the failure of sex education.
On the other hand, adolescents "sexual rebelliousness" can be reduced. Because this psychological generation, in addition to the above factors of the youth themselves, mainly attributable to the backward concepts and behaviors inherited by society, such as the adolescents to take sexual confinement, some schools do not offer sex education courses; parents to limit the child and the opposite way to peep at the child's diary, privately open the child's letters, ridicule and sarcasm of the child's desire for the opposite sex of the mentality; the occurrence of an early love, not to patiently persuade and guide, but to scold or The child's early love is not patiently persuaded and guided, but scolded or kicked out of the house.
These young people's "sex" as a "thief" anti-trust behavior, so that they produce serious antagonism, in the absence of correct theoretical guidance, very easy to embark on the road of sex crimes. Some adults in the sexual problem of words and deeds are not the same, all make the children feel adults hypocrisy, so as to resist any about sexual discipline.
The best way to minimize "sexual rebelliousness" is to let them explore some issues, such as how to socialize with the opposite sex, without interfering in an unprincipled way. When they are confused, they should discuss with them in an equal manner, provide positive suggestions and teach them ways to solve problems.