We parents should understand that, with the improvement of living standards, adolescents and young people sexual maturity significantly earlier, but this time the age and schooling, and it is impossible to get married, this stage can be called "sexual waiting period", with the arrival of puberty, the maturation of the sexual organs, sexual awareness of the enhancement of adolescents and young people will generally produce psychological sexual impulses.

Stage of alienation from the opposite sex

If parents find that their children are estranged from the opposite sex, they should think: this is the beginning of the awakening of the child's sexual consciousness. Within 1 to 2 years after the adolescent's secondary sexual characteristics first appear, because he has already dimly realized that there is a difference between the sexes, he will begin to have uneasiness and shyness. They are very sensitive to gender, and the boundaries between men and women are clearly defined, and they begin to temporarily distance themselves from the opposite sex.

Stage of approaching the opposite sex

After the phase of alienation from the opposite sex, there is a new change in the adolescent's psychology, which is the emotional attraction of the opposite sex. At this time, the teenagers are not only concerned about their own physical and mental changes, and began to pay attention to the changes of the opposite sex, the opposite sex to produce a sense of novelty, and like to show themselves in front of the opposite sex, hoping to attract the attention of the opposite sex, but also particularly happy to participate in collective activities with the opposite sex, parents should be given an understanding of the child to guide them to grasp the "degree".

Stage of attachment to the opposite sex

After the opposite sex close to the period of young boys and girls, gradually from the group of the opposite sex of the good feeling to the individual attachment to the opposite sex, the formation of one-on-one interactions, they are more with the spirit of psychological interactions to show the purity of their own emotions. However, due to the immaturity of their minds, their self-control ability is still poor, which will affect their studies. Some children who did well in elementary school, after entering secondary school is because of this reason performance began to decline is also relatively common, parents should keep abreast of the situation, education and guidance for children.

Trying to choose a spouse

When young people on the opposite sex of the adoration and pursuit of more specialized, and then sprouted love, it has entered the end of puberty, then, naturally, into the season of love and choose a spouse. However, feelings are still basically in a less stable stage compared to adults, and parents should give necessary reminders and guidance.

Adolescent sexual psychology performance characteristics

(1) Sexual longing

With the arrival of puberty, adolescents are eager to understand the changes in themselves and the opposite sex, so they will explore and acquire relevant sexual knowledge through various ways. This kind of sexual desire will be manifested in different ways on different occasions, for example: buying books depicting sexual content and reading them secretly in roadside stores and other places; watching videos depicting sexual content, and appreciating paintings and photographs with nude art, and so on.

(2) Sexual impulses

With the development of the body, adolescents will appear sexual impulses, they will often be in both want to control sexual impulses but difficult to control the contradiction, excitement, excitement, uneasiness, self-doubt of the psychological emotions are often intertwined, and if the ability of self-restraint is poor, some will appear to be out of line with the behavior.

(3) Sexual fantasy

　　Sexual fantasy is a psychological phenomenon that belongs to the process of sexual maturity of young boys and girls. Certain moral norms constrain their sexual behavior, they will be "can't do, think about it can always" indulge themselves, therefore, containing sexual content of the imagination, such as "daydreaming" and so on will often occur, I have already talked about, some children also to the point of affect the normal study, life and rest, and seriously affect the health of the body.

(4) Sexual Masturbation

Sexual masturbation is a kind of behavior for teenagers to satisfy the desire of sexual impulse, this kind of masturbation behavior to play or stimulate the external genitals and get sexual pleasure is common among teenagers. In fact, moderate sexual masturbation is not harmful, but can not be addicted to it, affecting the healthy development of the body and mind.

Instruct children to establish sexual norms and know how to protect their bodies

Our parents should understand that, with the improvement of living standards, adolescents and young people sexual maturity significantly earlier, but this time the age and schooling, and it is not possible to get married, this stage can be called "sex waiting period", with the arrival of puberty, the maturation of the sexual organs, sexual awareness of the enhancement of the teenagers will generally produce sexual impulses.