It is said that there are no parents in the world, but some parents treat their children differently. Especially in some places where boys are more important than girls, girls are the "helpers" or even victims of their sons. How should children treat themselves as inferior to their parents? The editor has thought of several methods for you, hoping to help you
Don't live with your parents. Your parents are too biased. You must think about your favorite children in everything. If you still live together, you will only do this and that like a slave. If you don't obey, you can be vicious at the light level, and you can be aggressive at the heavy level. So, it's better to live separately, out of sight, out of mind, and have a look at the holidays.
Don't be too obedient to your parents. As a child who is not loved by your parents, you always have to do something. Children who are not loved by their parents will only be praised by their parents if they obey their parents in everything. However, if you are treated unfairly, you must learn to resist. Otherwise, over time, it will become a habit for parents to call on children who are not loved.
The reason why money should be kept by oneself is that the word "eccentric" is not only reflected in labor, but also in money. Therefore, children who are loved by their parents can get all their parents' money, which is nothing. After all, parents' money is their parents', and they can give it to whoever they want. But if your money is handed over to your parents for safekeeping, then your parents will use your money for their favorite children for various reasons. So, if your parents are too biased, you should give them some money on New Year's Day, and take care of the rest.
Borrowing money only saves the poor. Some parents indulge their favorite children too much, causing them to be lazy and lazy, and also love all kinds of high consumption, such as buying a car and a house. At this time, your parents will ask you for the money, and once the money is lent, it must not be repaid. The money may still be saved by you. If it is only one time, it will be fine. But for eccentric parents, they will not consider how lucky you are to earn money. They will only ask you to lend money to their favorite children again and again. Therefore, in terms of money, you'd better stick to the principle of saving only the emergency but not the poor. Otherwise, the money you save will only be wasted once.
In addition to borrowing money, eccentric parents will also trouble you because of their favorite children's various conditions, such as asking you to help find a job, to stay there for a long time, and to wash and cook for their favorite children. These things are two days a day. If you have been asked to do them for a long time, you'd better do your best, otherwise you will be dragged down.
Communicate with your parents more. They will be treated favorably by their parents for a long time. They may not be able to deal with the grievances with their parents. As your parents, they may not be aware of it. So you should communicate with your parents more and tell them not to be too biased. They are all their children, and do things with a bowl of water.
Independent parents are too biased. In addition to being formed inadvertently, there may also be some deep-rooted thoughts in their hearts. You can't change their thoughts. They will not think about you when they do things, but will only think about their favorite children wholeheartedly. In this way, you are the child that no one hurts, so you must be independent, cherish yourself, earn more money, and plan more for your future..