As we grow older we have formed our own families, how to correctly deal with the conflicts that arise in the family?

Methods of operation
Be reasonable. When encountering disagreements, we should be calm, pay attention to the tone of voice, do not yell, carefully analyze what the other side is saying is not a certain amount of reasoning

Learn to think differently. Sometimes it is in a different position, the view of things will be different. Try to think in the other side's point of view, you will have a different feeling!

You should know how to be tolerant. People are not sage who can not fault, do not because of some of the other side of the faults of the nagging endless. To give each other the opportunity to change, sit down and analyze what causes the error, to help each other correct.

Avoid the cold war more communication more communication. In times of disagreement both sides will remain silent and say nothing, which is the most incorrect way to deal with the situation. To say all the thoughts in your heart, better communication can open the window of each other's mind.

Learning to be smooth to do the top and the bottom. You should know that family conflicts are not something that can be dealt with by reasoning, and you should do both sides of the pie, the harmonizer.

Regularly take your family out more often, long time in the work of high-pressure, will make people depressed. To accompany the family to go out more often when the time is convenient, even in the evening after dinner, holidays.

Don't bring the troubles at work into the family. Often outside the work inevitably encountered some unsatisfactory things, try not to bring the emotions into the family, as a man inside to be strong.