Even if you were once in love, you can't afford to be antagonistic in every little thing. In the midst of disputes, the initial good will also wear out, day after day to accumulate bad emotions.

And these bad feelings are dragging down the marriage!
 
It's better to simply refuse than to accept with resentment.
Don't like what the other person does or chooses, or refuse to peer, or keep silent. The most taboo is to put up with things you don't like while spouting vitriol to hurt the other person's feelings.

Reluctant counterparts, touched by their own, out of bad language, disgusted by the lover. Don't complain about pay can't be cherished, false companionship, not as frank and open refusal.

If you can't accompany your lover with joy, don't let her (him) and you together unhappy.
 
Some people pay a lifetime of love and appreciation, some people spare no effort to do each other's bad critic.
Obviously, the smallest thing, have to export a few sentences of ridicule, disparage each other to elevate themselves. When you put the unintentional said lover's personality defects, just exposed your narrow-minded petty.

Between husband and wife, there exists a kind of aura. The longer you get along, the more similar your behavior will become. If you are used to responding to your lover with harsh words, you will only end up with a mean partner.
Completely unable to tolerate criticism, the marriage has lost the sincere communication, the more days the more tired.

Glass-hearted people can only listen to praise, can not listen to criticism, no matter how amiable advice, have become a ten evil dislike.

Can't tolerate different voices, will only let the side around the hypocritical lies. Few lovers are willing to lie all their lives, can not put peace of mind, only to make people lose the idea of communication.
 
Perfunctionality is a mockery of a lover's intelligence.
When to lie to respond to the lover, even if not be punctured, but also in the overdraft of their own credit and sincerity. In a marriage with too much perfidy, one partner is in debt and the other is suspicious.

Today's perfunctory debt is for tomorrow's quarrel buried mine.
Whether it is mother-in-law and daughter-in-law or son-in-law, there are conflicts are normal things.

If the heart is hard to get even, may as well once said clearly, draw the line, reduce the contradiction. Say and dare not say, swallowed and swallowed, over and over and over again complaining, wearing down the sympathy and patience of the loved ones.

Either hard, or endure, have been living in the tangled, will love to parents, suffer torture or their own.
No matter how many storms outside, home moment should be put down.

Home is a harbor of rest and mooring, not a dumping ground for digesting negative energy. People who are incapable of digesting their own grievances make a mess of their marriages.
Outside the angry, out of anger at home, home is wrapped in negative energy, sooner or later will collapse. You can share your heart with your loved ones, and you shouldn't be angry at others for not doing well.
 
Silence is the last line of defense between husband and wife, between a line is the life and death of marriage.
The end of all marriages begins with a cold war. Missing the time to communicate, things may be able to pass, but the emotions are difficult to calm, and become a knot between husband and wife.

Speak up, it's not toxic to talk through it, it's toxic to hold it in.
Your emotions are the most important feng shui in your home.
The second half of life more and more smooth couples, relying on not heavenly good fortune, but know how to digest bad emotions in time, to give the loved ones positive feedback.
Whenever the storm comes, stupid people treat their loved ones as enemies, couples face each other angry, complaining about each other, quarrels constantly, both injured.

Smart people treat their loved ones as comrades in arms, something to discuss together, digest bad emotions, leaving good emotions, give each other support and encouragement.

Be a smart person, the loved ones to the same camp, the heart to a think, to make every effort to a point, every little effort has become a double, natural ease and pleasure.
Marriage is not easy, may we still bring each other good expectations!