01，Come to raise, love will last
We all know very well that love doesn't last, because people get old.
First in love for each other love, and then in marriage for each other respect, such a marriage is the most successful.
To honor means to look up to. You must first look up to your other half before your other half will look up to you.
Love needs to be cultivated constantly, and honoring each other is the nourishment of love. After love is given, it has to be constantly irrigated and nurtured before it can grow.
Nurture love by honoring it, so that love will not wither, so that you can still maintain the feeling of being in love after marriage.
This is also a kind of management, just like running a business. By running a business and nurturing it, the couple will get along better and better and smoother. This is a very beautiful process in life.
02， Do not ask for favors, do not remember to give favors
In marriage, always remember to "do not think of giving favors", do not ask for favors all day long.
When we help others, we are doing what we should do and are happy to do, not to make others thank us.
Whether or not the other party will be "favors do not forget", that is the other party's business, one should not give the other party any favor pressure.
It's good to be thanked, but it doesn't matter if you don't thank them. Especially between husband and wife, it is more important to hold this mentality.
Favors do not come by begging. If you don't ask for favors, they will always be there; if you ask for favors, everything will be gone, and you will only end up with nothing.
Mrs. to the home of things in order, Mr. to the outside of things to deal with no worries, both sides do not have any to ask for favors component, naturally can catch each other's hearts, and live in harmony.
03，Division of labor and cooperation, mutual companionship and companionship
In the family, husband and wife should have a division of labor, but also to cooperate with each other.
Our usual situation is that Mr. main outside, take on the major responsibility of the establishment of the family, Mrs. main inside, do their best to take care of the family affairs, to reduce Mr. worries.
In the past, husband and wife, Mr. is the master and Mrs. is the slave. Today, we can change it a little bit, turn the "master from" into "master and companion": a master, a companion.
Marriage is actually about accompanying the other half of the family through the journey of life.
Husband and wife can discuss, not necessarily "male main outside, female main inside", the husband to take care of the family affairs, the wife to work hard for the cause, it is also not bad.
The two people themselves weigh good, reach a consensus, and do their best for the family together.
04，Love what is the same, respect what is different
We must open our eyes before getting married, carefully observe, ask around, see clearly the other half of the various conditions, are well aware of after, in order to tie the knot for marriage.
After marriage, we should keep one eye open and one eye closed.
Open one eye to see the other half and his or her own similarities, each other like-minded, cooperate with each other.
Close one eye to be able to respect the other half of the different styles, each have their own strengths, each have their own good, can be complementary and mutually beneficial.
Love the same, that is, couples with the same interest in the same part, to encourage each other, and seek progress together.
To respect their differences, couples with different habits, interests, attitudes, should also respect each other, appreciate each other.