There is less scolding and abuse of children at present, but psychological abuse is extremely serious due to the lack of knowledge of mental health. One is to deprive children of their normal psychological needs, such as friendships, games and self-esteem.

Parents all like their children to study hard at school, put learning first, and don't fall in love. After all, they are still young, and don't know what love is and what love is. But now children receive so many complicated and precocious information. Many children talk about love behind their parents' backs. What should parents do when children fall in love early?

Parents think that children are still young, so they need to be strictly controlled, regardless of the rules will be no rules, the heart will play wild. For example, they control their children's studies, accompany them to do their homework, and impose strict requirements everywhere. Fear that the child can not do their own thing, so control the child's life, do things for the child.

Attention to the education of the child's healthy personality: in the process of formation of the child's personality, the father and the mother have a role that cannot be replaced by each other.

Attention to the education of a healthy personality of the child: in the process of formation of the child's personality, the father and the mother have an irreplaceable role. In the absence of fatherly love, the child will develop a so-called biased personality, i.e. weak, sentimental, inferiority complex, lack of perseverance.

Maslow developed the concept of self-actualization to emphasize that people are "what they can be and what they must be".

We just need to tell our children as much as we can about what people are doing, not what they should do, and let them weigh the pros and cons on their own.

A child refuses to admit that he or she has done something wrong. Some children have strong personalities, stubborn, obstinate, capricious, self-righteous, and are unwilling to admit that they have done something wrong for fear of losing face after admitting their mistakes. Some children never have the habit of admitting their mistakes, which is related to their parents' education.

Have your child listen to and watch a companion book that matches the content of the cassette tape and the book's images. The difference between this and television is that the child's understanding of the television story is taken from the images, i.e., the story is understood by looking at it, and prolonged watching of television can be damaging to the eyes.