It is our parents who gave us life, and also our parents who raised us to be fed. The hard work in the middle will deepen our understanding after we become parents. With the growth of children, how to deal with the relationship between parents and children?
No two people have ever been the same, so it is normal to encounter contradictions and misunderstandings in life. At this time, both sides should learn to respect each other. Only when you respect each other can you accept the differences of the other.
Communication is the key to handling relationships. According to survey statistics, 63% of parents and children rarely communicate. When their children are young, their parents are busy, and more homework leads to less communication. When they grow up, their children are also busy with their own work, and some work outside, so they will spend less time together, and naturally communicate less, which leads to parents and children do not understand each other, and the relationship is weak.
So when children are young, parents should listen to their children's inner world more, do not impose their own adult ideas on their children, and let them grow up healthily. When they grow up, children should often go home to see, and do not let parents spend a long time in missing and lonely. It is best to talk more, and home is always the harbor of your warm heart.
When we have different opinions with our parents, we should first learn to be patient. For our parents, we often quarrel with each other for some things, which seems to be right. In fact, at this time, we should try to step back.
If you are away for a long time, remember to go home often, help your parents do some small housework, and make them chatter. Family love is more valuable than anything else.
hot tip
"Filial piety" is never spoken in words. It is the best gift for parents to go home often. Don't leave behind the regret that "children want to be raised but their parents are not there"
Don't be stingy about the words you care about your parents