In the divorce rate continues to grow every year today, many people are talking about the matter of marriage, marriage is really so terrible?
Couples actually get along is not so difficult, as long as the following points, fine water is also a lifetime.
Men should do:
Women are a kind of animal that needs security, if you don't give her a sense of security, then she will constantly seek security! It may be manifested by making unreasonable demands, hitting you and scolding you, but she may really have no malice! Men can occasionally give women a little romance, a little surprise, buy a small gift, or directly send a bouquet of flowers, she will be very touched. Men should also care about your partner from time to time, care about her mood, body, work and so on.
Women should do:
Understand what men need Now more and more women complain that men are heartless, but do women know? In fact, men are also need to be loved animals, you have to understand what he needs, he wants to live is how, you can do a long time! Men need the most summed up is: to be worshiped, to be understood and recognized, to be pampered. Women have to care about your partner from time to time, and praise him, encourage him, do not move in the way of yelling oh. You can also send some special gifts!
The three major problems between couples and how to deal with them:
Communication problems Couples are people who accompany each other throughout their lives, so no matter happiness or pain have to bear and share together. So communication is very important, whether you do not agree with the way he handled or feel that their own way of dealing with more appropriate, it is necessary to put forward the views, and then consultation between the two to analyze and make judgments and for each other's sake.
Economic issues When two people decide to spend their lives together, people usually decide: what is his is yours, and what is yours is his. In fact, this idea is not wrong, but it is different for different people! The way with money is also different, there are some people spend a lot of money, some people are very frugal, so the two people together will be very easy to produce problems. So it is good for both sides to reach a consensus on this issue.
Sexual problems this issue is a private matter between husband and wife, the general public will not put their own room things everywhere, then there is a problem when two people how to seek a solution? It is recommended to politely point out the problems between the two people, and try to change more for each other.
Couples get along with the three to, three don't
To tolerate, do not complain no matter how the two people get along with each other are there will be some friction, not to mention between husband and wife! If you find that the other side to deal with things handled incorrectly, so that you have some losses, do not rush to complain about the other side is not, first tolerate each other, and then together to find a solution is the best choice.
To appreciate, don't blame everyone has advantages and disadvantages, if you start just see each other's advantages and not see each other's shortcomings, then when you find each other's shortcomings when you feel very disappointed, don't make a big accusation in order to vent their dissatisfaction! To appreciate his advantages tolerate his shortcomings! This way you will feel that we are all ordinary people, he is not bad!
To be sympathetic, less misunderstanding many times eyes to see, ears to hear is not necessarily the truth, we need to heart to understand, the facts to analyze! If the other side did something to make you sad, then you have to sympathize with him first, looking for him to ask for an explanation, listen to the original cause and effect of things! This can reduce the need to use some misunderstanding, and affect the feelings!