Good equal partnership can make the marriage has continued to go on, this tacit understanding is when you are doing something, he can quickly know what you need, immediately go to collaborate with you. Two people even without words are able to tacitly cooperate to this extent, you can see that their marital relationship will not be bad, and each other's hearts have each other, the weight is not light. If a marriage relationship is seriously imbalanced, two people get along together, what are the other half did, they like a big man like nothing to do, this relationship will certainly be out of balance. At least the unfair treatment won't last too long, and the one who gives the most will end up slowly complaining about the other's lack of understanding, which will eventually lead to the breakup of the marriage.
There is also a different pace of growth of the two people, this will also trigger a marriage crisis, one party in the continuous self-growth, while the other party has lost the impetus to grow and conditions, have been in the same place, the two people's eyes, mind, the realm of the gap widened more and more, to the end of the time they are discussing the same topic can not be found in common at all. This kind of completely not on a level, there will be a serious imbalance, there will also be a lot of problems.
In fact, most of this situation occurs in our women, because they are married, most of the time is spent in their own families, care for their husbands, children, parents, there is no time to improve themselves, every day is surrounded by these trivial matters, to live their own into a petty and calculating woman, while ignoring the growth of their husbands, who used to be more or less the same as their husbands have become The husband, who used to be similar to her, has become a man with a successful career and exudes charisma all over. But they always live in this kind of housework, become a middle-aged mom, has been youthful, and more and more inferiority complex!
This huge gap will have a lot of new worries out of the loss of self-confidence in themselves, but also to their own husbands become suspicious, the heart is also more and more heavy, will also be jealous of her husband's side of the girl, a moment to worry that he will betray us, every day to live in this bitter big gap in the pain, insomnia.
In the long run, the relationship between the two people naturally also gradually lit up the red light, become more and more distant, if it happens to be at this time, the husband met a very good woman, he will be fascinated, began to slowly become more and more different, which led to the two sides lost this equal relationship, the marriage is not far from the end.