When getting along with friends, it is inevitable that some conflicts and contradictions will arise. In order to effectively resolve conflicts, we must adopt appropriate methods and have certain abilities.
Methods of operation
01. Try to listen to each other and figure out the views and ideas of others without being in a hurry;
02. Allow others to express their own views, other people's ideas do not agree with their own, quite normal, do not impose their own views on others;
03. Sincerely stand in the other person's point of view and reconsider the issue, don't only consider your own interests and ideas;
04. Grasping the principle of hello, my good, not for their own interests to the detriment of the interests of others;
05. After a conflict arises, do not avoid it, but face up to it and the conflict, and try to communicate and exchange with the other party in a calm manner, expressing your true thoughts and needs, instead of trying to convince the other party by arguing and accusing;
06. When in conflict with the other party, do not accuse, but speak out your inner feelings, let the other party understand your true views on the matter, and discuss the matter on its own merits, not arbitrarily;
07. Be tolerant, if you can accept the other party, have a compassionate mind, allow others to be like this, be more open-minded, observe and think from a holistic point of view, you can avoid conflicts and contradictions and live in harmony with others and the environment.