Dear daughter, you are growing up, you have to learn to live on your own and learn to love yourself.

You have to learn to smile. You may not be pretty, but you can't not smile. Smile is the most beautiful flower. Girls who love to smile don't have bad luck.

Keep yourself pure all the time. Although the society is very complicated, sometimes there will be dark clouds in the sky, but you have to let your heart always pure, to let the sky of the mind always sunny.

Never get drunk outside. Try not to drink and especially not to get drunk in front of anyone else except in front of your parents and in front of your loved ones.

Get married to someone who loves you. The person who does not love you, even though there are a thousand good things, it does not serve any purpose. The one who loves you knows to cherish you. The person who does not love you, you treat him better, but also can not keep his heart.

Keep a distance from men outside of marriage. Men are animals who like to take advantage of the situation. If you smile at him, he will think you are interested in him and will come to mess with you. You must learn to keep your distance and not flirt with any man.

Don't take advantage of anyone. There is no such thing as a free lunch, and anyone other than your parents who treats you well has an agenda.

Don't get caught in the love net. Love is beautiful, but it is unreal and unreliable. Love is a dream, you can think about it once in a while, but never take it seriously. All love has to do with lust, and in the end it will put you in pain.

Don't worship money. Being a plain woman is what makes people respect a woman. Worshiping money will be despised and used by men.

Don't be afraid of danger. Don't be afraid when you meet a bad person, or a dangerous situation. Bad people are colorful and strong, if you are not afraid, it will be afraid of you.

Love yourself well. No one else in this world, except your parents will love you forever, will love you truly. But parents will grow old, so you must learn to love yourself. To love your body, to love your soul. Do not live for anyone, but live for yourself.