1,Manage your emotions
Mentality is the most essential feature that distinguishes a person from other things, and emotions are an important part of mentality. When the marriage cracks, we always habitually make the instinctive reaction, that is to vent their inner dissatisfaction. If the other person does not do things to my liking, I have to blame him mercilessly. I never think of counting three seconds in silence, and then point out the other person's mistakes out of the blue.
Manage your own emotions, let your heart calm down, less blame, more stability in the relationship. People are like this, always not good to manage their own emotions, especially when time is short, we generally do not have time to buffer, can not go to think so much, the mouth of the vicious words out of the mouth.
2,Control your mouth
Trouble comes out of your mouth, sometimes your one word destroys your marriage, how to solve marriage problems at this time? A dying marriage needs you to know how to manage your mouth that can add fuel to the fire. What you can say, what you absolutely have to keep in your heart, where and when is the right time to talk, and what is the right thing to say ...... These are all questions you need to understand before you can open your mouth to speak.
Some people's hearts and mouths, even if the heart is still very concerned about the love, and want to save the marriage, but the mouth said the word divorce, hard to put the marriage on the road to extinction. This can only be blamed on you will not manage their own mouth, even if again angry, but also to avoid saying some hurtful words, into the desperate marriage is very difficult to save.
3,Scientific time management
Marital disharmony, sometimes because the two people's time does not match, the husband to work, the woman has to do housework with children, may be the only couple's time in the world of two people is very little, then we have to grasp those times. This will require you to manage your time scientifically, not to say that it is not easy to take a vacation to sleep on a whole day, not to say that fall a relaxed and girlfriends to go out shopping together, you are idle, the first thought must be your partner.
You usually do not have how to accompany him, it is not easy to have free time, why can not take advantage of this time to cultivate a relationship, especially for those who want to save the marriage, may wish to take advantage of the two people have time to do something meaningful, neither wasted time, but also for the marriage to add the sweetness.