Living together in a family, it is usually inevitable that conflicts will arise because of a difference of opinion on one thing in life. At this time you may feel troubled, feel helpless, no way to understand each other, and no way to deal with your relationship. However, it is not impossible to solve the conflict, perhaps you can take some methods to solve the misunderstanding.
Methods of operation
01. Communication is the most useful way to solve problems. Through communication, parents and children of all parties to say their own ideas and difficulties, and then into the effect of mutual understanding, so that the conflict between you may be eased.
02. As a parent, you should always encourage and praise your children instead of criticizing more than praising. Praise children, is to affirm them, is their forward momentum, they will work harder, will do better. Whereas if you criticize them a lot, it will only make them bored and so it doesn't matter to keep trying.
03. Do not often put pressure on the child, as the saying goes, "the strong melon is not sweet", to put pressure on the child, will only play a negative role.
04. children do wrong, should give them reasoning, what should do, what should not do, they will know what is right, what is wrong, and certainly will not make the same mistake. Instead of hitting the child as soon as they make a mistake, this will only cause them to be rebellious.
05. Parents should have free time to chat with their children, talk to their children, and children become good friends, so that we can further understand the child's life, the child will also feel that the parents are not high above.
06. If possible, you can take the child to travel to the outside world to see, understand how wonderful the outside world. Traveling is also a learning process, see more, so there is a desire to understand, the motivation to learn.