Parents often encounter this and that kind of confusion in educating their children. For example, children are too naughty, often cause trouble, or children are too timid, cowardly and not generous, which is a headache for parents. In fact, children's timidity is caused by many factors, so how should parents guide them? What should children do if they are cowardly?

01

Let children contact the outside world more. We must give children more opportunities to contact the outside world, create a platform for children to contact with others, and do not let children stay at home all the time, otherwise, children will not get the exercise they deserve, and it is impossible to cultivate brave children.

02

Give children time to change. For children, if they know what their problems are, they should be given a time to change. Through training and improvement the day after tomorrow, they can make their children more courageous. Parents should not be too hasty, let alone eager for quick success.

03

Let go when it is time to let go. When we treat children, we should never spoil them, let alone coddle them, let them become spoiled, let them do nothing, and not let them go. Because coddling children can only harm children, we must let them go.

04

Take the first step bravely. We should encourage children to take the initiative in communicating with others, overcome psychological barriers, and learn to solve problems independently when encountering some small problems, rather than fear and fear, so that children can learn how to communicate with others correctly.

05

Improve children's ability and quality. We should pay attention to cultivating children's special skills. If children do not have more special skills, it is easy to inferiority complex. The result of inferiority complex is to make children less daring. Then, we can cultivate children's interests and hobbies, and exercise their courage.

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Don't humiliate children in public. Parents should do one big thing, that is, no matter how big mistakes children have made and how big problems they have, don't humiliate children in front of outsiders and hurt their self-esteem, which will naturally make their courage become smaller and smaller.

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Take a correct view of timidity. We should take a correct view of children's timidity. Parents should not impose their own ideas on children, but should put themselves in the children's perspective to think about problems. If there are problems, they should also teach children to solve them, rather than forcing them to intervene.