Divorce rates are increasing these days, so what can we do if our parents want a divorce.
01
Understand the situation. First of all, we have to find out what's going on, if we find out that our parents are just going to divorce because of some small things, then there's something that we can do to help solve the problem.
02
Let the parents tell stories. Let parents tell you some of their past common good memories, in their memories of the past, they may think, the past so good, or so many difficulties to get through together, now why want to divorce it, then they may not want to divorce.
03
Persuade with relatives and friends. One person's power is limited, if you do not have the ability to persuade your parents to put off the idea of divorce, then let relatives and friends together to persuade, come up with the point of view of each person, may be able to make their parents change their minds.
04
Mediation. Seek the staff of the relevant departments to help mediate, never underestimate the staff of these departments, their ability to mediate is not ordinary people can reach, many of them, both cultured and experienced.
05
If one of the parties does not want to divorce, then let one of the parties to find ways to coax the other party can be. Of course, this is based on the fact that the two people do not have any major conflicts, but simply want to divorce because of small things.
06
If two people divorce, not because of emotional problems, just with the accumulation of life experience, once common pursuit has become different, then I think sometimes peaceful divorce is good for them, the child should also let go, let them go to pursue their own life.
07
Respect the parents' choice. If two people's relationship has broken down, then respect the parents' choice, otherwise two people continue to be together just torturing each other, both will be very painful.