Talking to your child is an art that requires unique methods and techniques.

The first secret

Turn yourself into a child as well, enter his world and merge with him. Therefore, it is very important for parents to have a heart of gold.

The second secret

Getting close to your child and understanding their thoughts, preferences, and inner needs through their words and behavior.

Third Tip

Pay attention to your child's reactions and attitudes. When you talk to your children, listen carefully to what they say to understand their thoughts and behavior.

Fourth Tip

Recognize your child's feelings. When your child has been wronged outside, separated from his best friend or favorite pet, his delicate little heart will be upset for half a day. If the child cries to his parents and they just tell him, "It's okay, be strong," "There's nothing to be upset about," "You're useless, you dare to cry," the child will feel that his parents don't appreciate his feelings at all. This will make the child feel that his parents do not understand his feelings at all. If parents can treat their children with sympathy and understanding, soothe them at the right time and give them some affectionate comfort, I believe it will have a very different effect.

Fifth Tip

Understand your child's development. Don't say things that your child can't understand or make demands that your child can't meet, making your child feel hard and stressed.