Parents all like their children to study hard at school, put learning first, and don't fall in love. After all, they are still young, and don't know what love is and what love is. But now children receive so many complicated and precocious information. Many children talk about love behind their parents' backs. What should parents do when children fall in love early?

If we record what we have said to our children and listen carefully to our tone and voice, we will find that we do not respect our children to a large extent. Because we always use the tone of teaching, coaxing and seducing to win their cooperation. Even if children cooperate with us, it is often not from the heart. If we realize that our intonation and way of speaking are wrong, we should start to change ourselves. If we talk to our children in an equal way, like talking with friends, instead of lecturing them, we can successfully exchange ideas with our children in most cases.

Parents think that children are still young, so they need to be strictly controlled, regardless of the rules will be no rules, the heart will play wild. For example, they control their children's studies, accompany them to do their homework, and impose strict requirements everywhere. Fear that the child can not do their own thing, so control the child's life, do things for the child.

A child's Bar Mitzvah is a very, very important event and very monumental for the child

Attention to the education of the child's healthy personality: in the process of formation of the child's personality, the father and the mother have a role that cannot be replaced by each other.

We just need to tell our children as much as we can about what people are doing, not what they should do, and let them weigh the pros and cons on their own.

After a period of alienation from the opposite sex, there is a new change in the adolescent's psyche, which is the emotional attraction of the opposite sex.

A child refuses to admit that he or she has done something wrong. Some children have strong personalities, stubborn, obstinate, capricious, self-righteous, and are unwilling to admit that they have done something wrong for fear of losing face after admitting their mistakes. Some children never have the habit of admitting their mistakes, which is related to their parents' education.

Have your child listen to and watch a companion book that matches the content of the cassette tape and the book's images. The difference between this and television is that the child's understanding of the television story is taken from the images, i.e., the story is understood by looking at it, and prolonged watching of television can be damaging to the eyes.

Feel the child's feelings. When a child is wronged outside, separated from a good friend or a beloved pet, his delicate little heart will be sad for half a day.