Many parents lack communication with their children, thus ignoring their children's voice. In fact, parents should listen more to their children's voices, which is beneficial to their children's psychological development and the feelings between parents and children. So what should parents do?

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When a child confides, parents must face up to the child, not be condescending. This is the most basic respect. Children also need such respect.

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When a child confides, parents should not hold their arms, or do other things such as reading magazines. These actions will hinder the child's heart, and thus have the will not to confide.

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When the child confides, the parents' eyes can turn with the talking child, and naturally express your joy with their eyes. Let the child realize that you are listening carefully, and his mind will be relaxed and willing to talk.

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When a child confides in his or her heart, parents must not interrupt him or her without saying a few words, or even say some extreme words, such as "I already know, don't bother me". This will not only spoil the children's fun, but also make them afraid to talk in the future.

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When the child confides, the parents can make some actions that conform to the content of the child's words. For example, open your mouth to show that you are surprised. Although this is exaggerated for adults, children hope that adults will be interested in what they say and their emotions will be infected by them.

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When the child confides, the parents can express your views or opinions in words at the right time, or just say some simple encouragement or praise. For example, "I am the same as you think", "You are too powerful" and so on. In this way, children will naturally have an interest in speaking.

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If you learn to listen to your child, your child will be willing to talk to you. If you are willing to talk to you, your child will be willing to communicate with you like a friend. If you are willing to communicate, your parents' education will be simpler, and your child's psychology will develop healthily.