Best Practice
When a young man and woman get married, they transform from a mutually pursuing relationship to a normal husband and wife relationship. When this relationship is transformed well, they will be more in love with each other and will become life partners. If the transformation is not good, they will be emotionally distant, or even unhappy. So how do we deal with the relationship between husband and wife?
1. Consistency of thought: couples should have a common ideal and purpose of life. Married life, often will find each other some shortcomings, this time should be in line with the principle of seeking common ground while reserving minor differences to help each other and understanding.
2. Emotional resonance: the so-called emotional resonance is the two sides of the outlook on life, ideals, aspirations, interests, knowledge, personality, style and other aspects. These can not be exactly the same, but the most important aspects should gradually obtain the same.
3. Mutual special consideration: husband and wife to cultivate the ideological feelings, need to be carefully experienced in life. It can be said that the husband and wife relationship is considerate in the gradual development. Normally, one should not ask each other by one's own hobbies and moods. In terms of speech, expression, jokes, habits, hobbies, etc., it is necessary to consider whether it will hurt the feelings of the other party, and whether it can bring unpleasant emotions to them.
4. Coordination of interests: similar hobbies between husband and wife, the same emotion is indispensable to establish a happy family. However, due to each person's living environment, family influence, different educational background, interests, hobbies will not be exactly the same. Young people have their own interests and hobbies, which is a reflection of youthful vigour. Don't make things difficult for others, and pay attention to each other's interests if you don't like them.
5. Get along as equals: young couples who start to live together should discuss things together, so much so that it becomes a habit. Couples are equal, there is no question of who controls who. Oppose "male superiority and female inferiority" and "female superiority and male pity".
6. Living together in harmony: After marriage, the husband and wife should be self-supporting, take care of their own lives, and provide for their own food, clothing, oil, and salt. The love of love is replaced by the trivialities of real life. Day to day encounter is cooking, laundry, grocery shopping, etc., which requires both parties to jointly manage household chores. For strength work, the husband has to do more, while washing and sewing requires the wife to do more. When two people co-operate well, there will be no complaints from either side.
7. Mutual trust: sincere love is the bond of the family, is the ideological basis for mutual trust, it can lead from love to marriage, from marriage to happiness, is a lifetime can not be ignored. Before marriage to their lovers relationship is ready and considerate. Mediocre chores sap the old passion and trust, these are often normal and should not be used to suspect a change of heart.