When two people are in the heat of the moment, seeing each other for a few seconds less is unbearable. But after years of spending time together, some people get tired of even saying one more word. This is the evil consequence of a long marriage inappropriate together. After the marriage, the emotion will slowly return to the flat, the couple more is the wood, rice, oil, salt, soy, vinegar and tea. For people who like freshness by nature, it will be unbearable.

01, Know how to share
I have a colleague, married for ten years, she and her husband's feelings are still very good, we get together when the party, will always make fun of her, said she is now so well maintained, because of the nourishment of the marriage, we are very curious about how she is to maintain each other's feelings so well, she said a very important point, is that there is a mutual sharing of desire, if the two people If the two people do not even have the most basic desire to share, how can they maintain a good relationship with each other?

02,Similar interests
Husband and wife, despite living together, but also have their own work and friends, in the busy time, can not help but ignore each other, this time, the feelings between each other will be affected, so this time, similar interests will be particularly important, when you husband and wife, there are similar interests, there will be more exchanges, and there will be more empathy, so, to maintain and each other So, in order to maintain and each other's feelings, then cultivate and each other's similar hobbies!

03, Focus on each other's anniversary
When you are in a new relationship, do you often celebrate anniversaries? For example, a hundred days of love, the first anniversary of love, these anniversaries are precious to you, but now? Even the anniversary of the wedding has no meaning, in the anniversary of the time, looking forward to the surprise of you will always usher in his sentence: "too tired to work today", full of joy into a disappointment.

Slowly, you have no more expectations for each other's life, this is what you want after marriage? There is no surprise and touching, life becomes boring, the other half of the feelings will fade, so how can you get through the "seven-year itch"? Therefore, in order to have a harmonious relationship, we must pay attention to each other's anniversary, give each other more surprises, so that life becomes more flavorful.