Before you decide to save your marriage, it is best to assess whether the marriage is salvageable. If the marriage itself has deteriorated, but also insist on saving the marriage, more efforts will not help, it is simply delaying their youth, indefinitely prolong their suffering. Whether a marriage has deteriorated, there are a variety of circumstances, the third, two people's feelings have become diluted, personality incompatibility, values and so on, here we will talk about the affair this situation.

We look at a marriage can be saved, mainly to see the affair of the motive, purpose, time, but also according to the basis of marriage, personal qualities, as well as a variety of objective factors to analyze, only in this way, can we draw the correct conclusion. Below, we look at what kind of marriage can be saved.

     01：Salvageable Marriage

The motive of the affairer is just to have fun, the purpose of the affair is just to trade money and color or money and power, both parties do not have true feelings, and the time of the affair is very short or just a one-time event. The betrayed and the affair partner's marriage is based on a good foundation, the betrayed can forgive the affair partner, the affair partner is willing to reform, in this case both husband and wife after active cooperation, joint efforts, the marriage will be revitalized!

     02:Marriage that can be made to work

The motive of the affairer is to go out to look for the warmth or some kind of fulfillment that he or she cannot get at home, and the duration of the affair usually lasts for a few months or a few years. The affairer's goal is to find intimacy, comfort and fulfillment. The betrayed person and the affairer have an average marital foundation, but both parties have children, and the betrayed person lacks the ability to live, and reluctantly forgives the affairer because of the children, survival and social pressure.

Although the affair partner has a close relationship with the third party, he or she objectively does not have the conditions to come together with the third party to live together. After the affair is discovered, the person having the affair can only return to his or her own home, the other party to compromise the affair, give in, or may be to take revenge on the other party to have an affair, this couple each have an extramarital affair, the marriage into the state of will be.

     03: Irretrievable Marriage

The affairer and the third party sincerely love each other, the affair time is longer, the affairer and the third party to establish a deep affection, the affairer and the third party objectively have come together to live in the conditions, the husband and wife of the marital foundation is not good, the resolution of the affairer has been determined. The betrayed person is deeply hurt mentally or physically by the affair partner, so much so that he or she cannot forget and forgive and cannot forgive the other person.

     Conclusion

If the marriage can still be saved, please do not give up easily, if the marriage has been unsalvageable, please do not hold the lifeless marriage to waste their time, sometimes, turn around and still meet happiness!