Marriage is built on the basis of mutual trust, and when we inadvertently found that the husband's "small treasury" will be linked to deception, betrayal, and even cheating, our hearts were greatly traumatized, aggrieved, dissatisfied, skeptical attitude arose, we seem to fall into the abyss and can not be extricated, then we should! How to save themselves, how to correctly deal with the problem of the husband's hidden money?
Methods of operation
First, the first to stabilize their own emotions, pay attention to observe his recent behavior, look whether with the past changes, when he is still as before, to their own thoughtful, caring, then his "small treasury" by his management, you regularly check the amount of just fine.
Second, to capture the indulgence when his demeanor, behavioral changes, but you still do not know the reason for the case, should remain calm, do not face questioning and criticism, we have to slowly find the reason for a lot of reasons, maybe his friends in urgent need of money, maybe his family needs, maybe donations to save lives, but afraid you do not understand by your opposition, when we know the reason, we will choose a reasonable When we know the reason, we will choose a reasonable method to solve it.
Thirdly, the side of the two sides get along well, intentionally remind each other, you can use the drama of the TV series, sketches or around the case, and her husband to discuss or publish some of their own insights, so that her husband understands your intentions, know your attitude towards this matter.
Fourth, guidelines for consumption can go out to eat when you let your husband consumption, shopping when you want to buy something, open the bag forget to bring money to let your husband to pay, or go to the expensive price of their own but have not been willing to buy the goods in front of the performance of the fondness, when the husband saw you poor look, will take the initiative to pay the bill, or come up with the private money to buy for you, to give you a surprise.
Fifth, review yourself sometimes can ask yourself, husband is a kind of person, the reason why he saved private money is not usually we are too thrifty, the husband is also too harsh, men work outside, dating, encounter things, no money on the body will be very embarrassed, very lose face. Maybe they just want money to be able to be flexible some of the use.
Sixth, understand and believe that when a man every month to pay all the wages into your hands, or payroll card into your hands, which represents the responsibility for the home, and respect for you, believe in their own vision, believe in their own men, private money is nothing, the most important thing is two hearts. As long as it is two people heart to heart, and what can not be solved.
