Be a man
It doesn't matter whether your IQ is high or not. It's not a problem whether your EQ is high or not. But the pattern of your life must be big. To be frank, you can be neither clever nor communicative, but you must be generous.
pattern
If a little frustration makes you unable to get up, if a bad word or two makes you unable to let go, if you hate people and hate people easily, then the pattern is too small.
mind
You can be as successful as you are. The sea embraces all rivers, and the capacity is great; The wall stands on a thousand feet. Because mind is the sign of success.
always remember
Always remember this sentence:
The harder you work, the luckier you are!
Empty cup
Let go of your impetuosity,
Put down your laziness, put down your three-minute heat, empty your brain that can't resist temptation, open your eyes that are easily attracted by anything, light your mouth that you want to gossip about everything, calm down and do what you should do. It's time to work hard! Sometimes after you really work hard, you will find yourself much better than you think.
hope
Everything in the world is small except life and death. No matter what troubles you encounter, don't embarrass yourself; No matter how bad things happen today, don't be disappointed with life, because there is still tomorrow.
target
People with goals are running, people without goals are wandering, because they don't know where to go! Those who have goals are grateful, while those who have no goals are complaining, because they feel that the whole world owes him!
People with goals can't sleep, people without goals can't sleep, because they don't know what to do!
life
Life is only wonderful, not brilliant!
insist
If you feel that you are very hard at this time, tell yourself that the easy way is downhill! Hold on, because you are on the way up, and you will make progress if you go there.
strive
If you are complaining about fate, please remember that fate is the excuse of losers; Luck is the humble word of a successful person. Although fate is determined by heaven,
But complaining is only a sign of cowardice.
What is the pattern? The pattern refers to the internal layout of a person's vision, mind, courage, and other psychological elements!
A person's development is often limited. In fact, "limitation" is that the pattern is too small to be limited. Those who plan big things must set the overall situation. For the chess game of life, we should first learn not skills, but layout. The big pattern, that is, to enter into life from a big perspective, and strive to stand higher, see farther, and do more. The general pattern determines the direction of things. If you control the general pattern, you will also control the situation.
A person's pattern is big, and the future road can be wide!
If life is regarded as a chess game, the outcome of life is determined by the pattern of the game. To win the game of life, the key is to grasp the game. In the game of chess between people, pawns are used to protect the car, flying elephants are used to jump horses... All kinds of chess are like every game in life. The winner of the chess game is often the chess player who has the measure of giving before taking, the height of overall planning, and the strategy and momentum of strategizing and winning thousands of miles.
Peng Xiaodong's point of view: the key to growth is to build a life pattern for yourself.
Why should there be a big pattern? The limitation is that the pattern is too small.
In today's world of constantly updated knowledge, we are constantly refreshing our knowledge structure. The most important thing is to cultivate a big mind as much as possible.
Only in a big realm can we have a big mind, and only in a big pattern can we achieve great results.
1、 Behind the luck of the winners lies the big picture
- What kind of pattern you have, what kind of fate you have!
Those who have a big pattern:
Have an open mind
Don't belittle yourself because of unfavorable environment
Not because of the lack of ability.
Those with small patterns:
They often complain about the bad life
Because of a little setback
When we look at problems, we often lose sight of Mount Taishan and become a mediocre person.
- The pattern is not big enough, and life achievements are limited no matter how high!
Three outcomes of a pomegranate seed:
It can only grow to more than half a meter high when planted in a flowerpot!
You can grow to more than one meter high if you plant it in the tank!
It can grow to four or five meters high if planted in the open yard!
- "Limitation" means that the "bureau" set by a person for himself is too small!
The height that can be reached in life is often the height that people choose for themselves psychologically. If a person never wants to reach the peak in his heart, he will never succeed!
- Abandon the life attitude of rushing only for rations!
The story of God and the beggar:
God looked at a beggar and said to him:
"What would you do with 1000 yuan?" the beggar said, "Buy a mobile phone"
"What would you do with 100000 yuan?" The beggar said, "Buy a car"
"What would you do with a million yuan?" the beggar said, "Buy the most luxurious area in the city"
- Blind obedience is irresponsible for life!
Most people have a herd mentality. They are afraid to take the lead and take the lead. All choices are based on others' choices. Conformity without choice is blind obedience and irresponsible for life!
2、 The general pattern has a general direction and will not change due to external pressure
Pain and confusion are often caused by unclear directions
Frustration is an inevitable process of life
Don't position yourself as a loser
Do not pursue quick success that violates objective laws
Losers are often beaten by themselves
You can win only if you can afford to lose
Be prepared for possible problems
3、 The big pattern has great capacity, and is not tied up by trivial matters
The size of the instrument determines the size of the business
Where people can be used, do not blame the whole
Don't let suspicion ruin you
Forgiving others is actually letting yourself go
Broad mind dilutes the pain of life
Neglect the gains and losses of fame and wealth
The state of mind is right
Keep calm and face life calmly
Good competition, overcome jealousy
4、 The big picture has big ambitions, and every day is a process of progress
Splendid dreams improve the quality of life
People with high positioning will not let themselves muddle along
We should be ambitious and start from every bit
Courage comes from recognition of one's own ability
Every day's work is actually for yourself
For tomorrow's success, endure today's loneliness
Focus on your time
So, how do we work hard?
Ways to realize the overall pattern
The pattern is not a congenital thing, and has no inevitable connection with your current life environment. The pattern is a person's positioning of their own life coordinates. As long as we can adjust our mentality, we will be able to establish a big pattern for ourselves. Knowledge and skills are internal forces, and the right platform and rich contacts are wings. If you can make full use of all these resources and put yourself on a rising ladder every day, then the great pattern and development in the future will not only be a dream.
If you want to enlarge your pattern, you need to stand in different positions and feel it. The test of whether a person's intelligence is superior depends on whether his mind can accommodate two opposite thoughts at the same time, without hindering his behavior in the world. In fact, this is just like the "Tai Chi Yin and Yang Diagram" mentioned in Chinese Taoist culture. There is Yang in Yin and Yin in Yang, which is a more comprehensive pattern.
- Optimize the knowledge structure and enrich the internal support of the overall pattern
Keep learning and make life bigger
Learn knowledge in social practice
Learning without thinking is useless. Pay attention to thinking more
Pay attention to updating yourself in work
Core knowledge to learn according to career choice
Only when knowledge is used can it become power
- The general pattern is not aggressive, but does not exclude risks
Abandon timidity and cultivate the spirit of adventure
Adventure is not a gamble, it is to look at the direction and act again
In special times, "eggs can also be put in one basket"
The time will never be ripe. Do it with five points
When doing things, you should grasp the key points and don't be trapped by small things
Make decisions at the first time and take the initiative
If the direction is wrong, learn to give up
If you want to control the future, you need to foresee the future
- The big pattern needs a big platform to complete the breakthrough of the pattern in space
You can't just be a selected person
Quit a happy and rigid career
Leave the boss with no future
Take the initiative to increase your "exposure" opportunities
The surrounding environment is not an excuse for your low-level positioning
Can be poor, but can't yield to poverty
Be adaptable to the environment, and then be strong
- Integrate social resources and complete a breakthrough in the pattern from the perspective of people
Cultivate contacts and get more support
Take the wise as the teacher and keep company with the strong
The power of contacts is no less than professional skills
Making friends with successful people is not as difficult as you think
Turn enemies into friends and unite all forces that can be united
Only with value can there be contacts
To win the trust of others, the attitude must be sincere
- Make full use of strengths and avoid weaknesses, and complete a breakthrough in the pattern in terms of strengths
Read yourself and recognize your strengths
Promote strengths and avoid weaknesses, and give full play to their strengths
Find your position and don't stand on the wrong stage
Perfect simple work
Face the reality and sharpen your endurance
Think from another angle and let luck turn around
Have the courage to try and find a new way out