Many parents of adolescent children still treat their children as "children", making substitutions and making decisions, while the physical and mental development of adolescent children is much faster than in the past, posing new challenges to parents.
Many of my visitors have asked me this question:"Why do I pay so much in my feelings, and she still doesn't love me?"In their view, as long as they pay enough for the other half in their feelings and are good enough for the other half, they can get their love; He is so kind to him. If he doesn't love himself, he has a problem with his character. He is a dirty man/woman who cheats his feelings.
There is no absolutely correct view of love. After all, love is the simplest and most complex, the happiest and the most painful, the most straightforward, warm and implicit emotion in the world.
Differences between people are bound to exist, what we have to do is not to ignore or suppress, but to accept and cherish, only then can we truly grow and be happy!
Before marriage, we must make adequate psychological preparation, have reasonable expectations of marriage, and at the same time cultivate the ability to love, so that we can cope with the inevitable changes and unexpected situations after marriage, and ultimately harvest real happiness.
Love is a feeling that gives a person a sense of security, satisfies his needs, allows him to be himself, and allows him to experience security, warmth, comfort, pleasure, relaxation, and joy because of your presence.
Many parents like to intimidate their children. When the children do not obey, they will say: If you do this again, I will not want you; If you do this again, I will hit you; If you do this again, get out of here! When you say this, you are happy, but have you ever thought that it is effective? Can your child accept it?
