We have always heard such complaints: the first intimate contact is the watershed of men's attitudes, which is very different before and after sleeping. Why?

Many of my visitors have asked me this question:"Why do I pay so much in my feelings, and she still doesn't love me?"In their view, as long as they pay enough for the other half in their feelings and are good enough for the other half, they can get their love; He is so kind to him. If he doesn't love himself, he has a problem with his character. He is a dirty man/woman who cheats his feelings.

There is no absolutely correct view of love. After all, love is the simplest and most complex, the happiest and the most painful, the most straightforward, warm and implicit emotion in the world.

In intimate relationships, being able to listen is much more important than being able to talk!

Differences between people are bound to exist, what we have to do is not to ignore or suppress, but to accept and cherish, only then can we truly grow and be happy!

Before marriage, we must make adequate psychological preparation, have reasonable expectations of marriage, and at the same time cultivate the ability to love, so that we can cope with the inevitable changes and unexpected situations after marriage, and ultimately harvest real happiness.