Many men are complaining that Chinese women are now more and more powerful, more and more do not put their husbands in their eyes, but also ridicule their own men more and more lack of masculinity. Indeed, in the era of advocating women's liberation and gender equality, in advocating the peaceful settlement of all kinds of disputes today, the vast majority of things that men do women can also do, while women can do things men can not, or men also have a child to see?
Society is progressing and the men's groups are seriously degraded, so women marrying their husbands at the same time will be more worried about marrying a wimpy man, the social survival environment is forcing women to be more and more strong, not for anything else, just for women do not like their men to become wimpy and no man's masculinity.
In fact, women are afraid that their husbands do not have the ambition to make progress without career ambition, most afraid of their husbands do nothing to become a loser, most afraid of their husbands to become more and more no masculinity, even if it is a small man like the Philippines that bullies door to door also do not dare to fight, how can such a man protect himself? How can such a man protect himself? How can he protect his children? How can he protect his home?
Women like men who have rules of life, and husbands who use stage-by-stage planning to realize the value of their lives. The age of love on the pain of love, marrying a wife also heralded the completion of the stage of the task, the requirements are only to be able to live peacefully, as long as you can coax the wife happy on the line. For smart women, love or passion, far less important than the man's work and career, but also far from earning money to meet the child's formula money to really. Therefore, smart women will inspire men to adjust the goal of life to the family and children struggle, it can be seen, women like to have masculine blood man.
Men are supposed to have men's masculinity, although not advocating domestic violence, but to provide a safe and secure living environment for their wives and children is always the husband's vocation, right? Otherwise, the woman will not be a lifetime of fear and difficult to have a sense of happiness?
To stand firm in this society is the need to work hard, to play a good role in the marriage is also the need to speak with strength, do not expect this society will appear the ideal model of equality between men and women, do not expect the wife really learned the truth of mutual respect, in the eve of the man did not have a successful career, the vast majority of women are very strong, do not come to bully you have been amitabha to burn high incense.
Therefore, do not blame their own women, or in the grievances of the first time to think about their own is not good enough? Is not already reached the psychological expectations of women? Of course, women can not be too hasty, to understand "good husband is coaxed out" of the obvious truth, at the same time, to make your marriage relationship evolved into a happy marriage, the essential means is more encouragement to the husband less criticism, more respect less demeaning, more forgiving less, of course, do not say "! Of course, don't say " regret it" and so on, so that the husband heard after feeling scared and even so chilled words, don't do to make the husband worried about the fear of things.