Couples are the people who spend the longest time together. They face each other day and night. However, such close relatives will encounter various contradictions when they get along, which will affect each other's feelings. A good marriage will make people feel comfortable. Unhappy marriage makes people feel disheartened. No couple wants their family to breed conflicts, and they all want to be happy. What is happiness and how can we be happy.

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Listen carefully to each other. Two people get along for a long time, life is more trivial. Often when the other party is talking about one thing, he is busy with another thing. They are so busy with trifles that they increasingly neglect each other. For a long time, we can communicate with each other less, so we should communicate with each other more, understand each other's words and the meaning of each other.

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Be more respectful and considerate of your other half. When people treat a stranger, they always show proper courtesy. However, it is easy to show impatience in the face of people who get along with each other day and night. Don't over-criticize the other side's mistakes, and don't always talk about the other side's shortcomings. Doing so will only irritate the other party. We should also respect each other's work and their contributions.

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Get along equally. In family life, if one person pays too much in the family, but the other party fails to fulfill its obligations, the other party will feel unbalanced. Some couples are working, but men are fond of gambling, regardless of their children and affairs, and only indulge in their bad habits. It is conceivable that few people can accept this way of getting along.

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Learn to encourage each other. The other party's cooking is not good. Don't say "I can't even cook a dish." You can ask the other party to try more, or help the other party together, and tell the other party that it is not difficult. Reduce the use of negative words, such as you are stupid, useless, you are like this and so on. Listening to them will not make people better, but also make people more depressed. The other party will think that you don't understand him, and it is easy to cause controversy.

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Properly handle the strong women and weak men. What if the woman's income is stronger than her own? Will she feel ashamed. I have seen such a couple, because their wife has a better income than their own work, and they always feel that the other side is oppressing themselves. First of all, this idea is wrong. Put your mind in order and spend your best in family management to gain more. Such a woman can't be strong. She should communicate well with the man, not be critical of the other party's work, and reduce the pressure of the other party.

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Cultivate mutual interests and create more common topics. When you are tired of life, go out for a proper trip, feel the nature together, and let each other relax physically and mentally. There is a topic of mutual interest, such as financial management, singing, etc.

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A good marriage requires mutual attention, joint operation and creation

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