Love

Many of my visitors have asked me this question:"Why do I pay so much in my feelings, and she still doesn't love me?"In their view, as long as they pay enough for the other half in their feelings and are good enough for the other half, they can get their love; He is so kind to him. If he doesn't love himself, he has a problem with his character. He is a dirty man/woman who cheats his feelings.

There is no absolutely correct view of love. After all, love is the simplest and most complex, the happiest and the most painful, the most straightforward, warm and implicit emotion in the world.

Before marriage, we must make adequate psychological preparation, have reasonable expectations of marriage, and at the same time cultivate the ability to love, so that we can cope with the inevitable changes and unexpected situations after marriage, and ultimately harvest real happiness.

Love is a feeling that gives a person a sense of security, satisfies his needs, allows him to be himself, and allows him to experience security, warmth, comfort, pleasure, relaxation, and joy because of your presence.