If you think that you are superior to others, that others are inferior, and that you are superior to others, you will isolate yourself and let yourself fall into a tragic situation. You don't have to be too pure, or you will be hypocritical. Self-feeling is high, but in fact it imprisons and closes itself, which will only limit your life and future.
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The more you grow up, the more you feel that there are fewer people who are sincere to you. How many real friendships can there be now? There is no denying the existence of true friendship, but that is only a small part of many friends. You can't feel that if you are intimate with someone, you will only associate with someone, and the rest will be ignored. Your life will be too narrow, which will limit and hinder your development.
02
You will find some contacts very hypocritical. But why are there many such people in reality? In fact, such people are very sociable and good at making profits. For example, the exchange of interests between businessmen is often not sincere, but they say flattery to each other in order to obtain benefits. The interests of society will bring wealth to themselves. In order to survive, people must strive for interests for themselves. It is meaningless for the current society to blindly let oneself be so pure and noble. True friendship is too rare, why do you care too much!
03
When communicating with others, you should be good at grasping the other's character, understanding the other's way of life, and discovering the other's strengths. When you see what you think is good, you should learn from it and use it in your life. If you see something bad, you should carefully analyze it to avoid making mistakes. Think about how to do it for yourself and others. This is a point that cannot be ignored in interpersonal communication.
04
Don't avoid intercourse. If you escape, you will only make others less understand you, more ignore you and despise you. Do you want to withdraw from the stage of history automatically? In that way, friendship will not exist and interests will not exist. What's the use of escaping? Escape is the most incompetent performance. Rather than escape, think more about how you can live in harmony with others.
05
After entering the society, you don't have to become too "pure". You used to think you were pure, but in fact, you were just hypocritical. In fact, I am not more excellent and superior than anyone else. Try to communicate with all kinds of people and learn more about others' ideas. Slowly, you will become open-minded and can accommodate many different people. Slowly, you will have a very comfortable life in the field of communication.
06
After the student era, entering the society, interpersonal relationship is too complex, if it is still so simple, it is extremely detrimental to your career and life development. Too simple, others think you are an idiot, think you are brain-damaged. Therefore, we should learn more about all aspects of knowledge, so that we can move from simple to rich and profound.