There is no absolutely correct concept of love, after all, love is the world's most simple but the most complex, the most happy and the most painful, the most straightforward and passionate but the most subtle and deep feelings.

Personally, the most appreciated concept of love is: two people stand side by side, the sun and the moon shine together love, I am good enough to be able to stand by your side, and you and your equivalent, in you for me to hold up an umbrella at the same time, I can hold up a piece of heaven for you.

The world has a variety of love, behind the different views of love, love is very personalized, want what kind of love on what kind of love, and there is no one absolutely correct standard, only reasonable and unreasonable points. In the reasonable premise, suitable for their own, in line with their own inner needs is the best. Reasonable concept of love is certainly common, I think the following aspects are reasonable concept of love should have:

1. Together because of love

The first word of love is love, and the second one is affection. And a person to produce feelings is not a difficult thing, people and people are very easy to love each other over time, strangers help us, we still have gratitude to him it, but love is not so easy to produce. In love, love is the first, love is a person's heart, feel for ta, from the heart to appreciate ta, desire to be close to ta, want to give the world's best to ta, hope that ta always happy and bright. We love a person, the heart will have the expectation of the future, the eyes will have a million light.

We can't fall in love for the sake of falling in love, get married for the sake of getting married, which is with the purpose, is very utilitarian, we fall in love, get married, must be because of love, because of like, not because of other factors.

2. Respect each other, do not force

"Love comes too fast, like a tornado", we may be very sudden, in the case of no preparation to fall in love with a person, and the other party may not be able to respond to our favorite. If you make an effort and still can't get his love, you must respect him and never force it. Love is not something that can be forced, nor is it something that can be obtained by making an effort or insisting on it, it is just this unreasonable, love and not be able to choose to respect and let go.

Similarly, in love, we also need to respect each other, mutual understanding. Everyone is an independent individual, have their own ideas and the way of life, we should respect each other's ideas and different, seek common ground and tolerate each other, can not force each other to change. Love a person should respect ta, understand ta, not to force ta.

3. Live in the present, not obsessed with the past

When we meet someone, we may have already experienced several relationships or marriages, and their past may be very rich. If we really love ta and want to spend the rest of our lives with ta, we should not be obsessed with the past, but live in the present, after all, the past has been unable to change, and ta's present and future belongs to us, it is up to us. It's like Watson's words to Mary in Sherlock -

"Your past, I'm not involved, that's your business; your future, I'm with you to the end, it's my honor."

4. Know how to stop loss in time

Love is not all good, love also makes people blind, make people confused, can not distinguish between right and wrong, easy to make some wrong decisions, jump into some "pit".

We will inevitably meet some unsuitable people, not so good people, or even scum, in the pursuit of ta or in the process of love, we have suffered a lot of torture and injury. If you find that you really can't go on, no matter how much you have paid for the relationship, you must stop in time. Never pay too much youth and energy, because of the reluctance to give up, the break constantly later will lose more, in fact, in the consumption of their own.

Love is not right or wrong, but can not blindly love, establish a reasonable, suitable for their own concept of love in order to better love each other and enjoy love.