"There are no two leaves in the world that are exactly the same." Children have different personalities, which requires parents to choose the appropriate method of conversation according to their children's characteristics.
If we record what we have said to our children and listen carefully to our tone and voice, we will find that we do not respect our children to a large extent. Because we always use the tone of teaching, coaxing and seducing to win their cooperation. Even if children cooperate with us, it is often not from the heart. If we realize that our intonation and way of speaking are wrong, we should start to change ourselves. If we talk to our children in an equal way, like talking with friends, instead of lecturing them, we can successfully exchange ideas with our children in most cases.