The road of life is not always smooth. The bumpy journey of life needs those wise words to accompany us and make our progress more sonorous and powerful.
1、 Take your own way, also depends on what others say.
Everyone is a member of society, and we are all in an organic whole of mutual connection. All our activities are closely related.
However, some people always sing the high key of "let others talk on their own way", and take a calm look. In fact, their hearts are extremely contradictory. I can't accept it, but I have to show a indifferent attitude.
In fact, in this era, it depends on what others say. In this era of rapid expansion of self-consciousness, those who feel good about themselves, who always walk and look up at the stars, have sprung up like bamboo shoots, and the phenomenon of social apathy has become more and more obvious. At this time, the evaluation of others becomes crucial to you. No matter how much your family members evaluate you, your colleagues evaluate you, or the candidates evaluate you, it is a valuable life treasure. Others' reading your comments is your motivation to make further efforts. In fact, those who dare to face up to your shortcomings are the people you want to thank. We should approach them kindly, try to give them a fresh feeling when we meet next time, and seize the power of success from gossip and criticism.
2、 Free lunch is a burden if not a trap.
Since ancient times, there has been a saying that "there is no free lunch in the world". Things that don't cost money are actually the most expensive. Getting something for nothing is the ideal state that many people want to have. But in the end, they all backfired. In ancient times, the man who waited for the rabbit did not find the experience of the first rabbit and made a fortune. Instead, he broke the wall to make up for the west and lost the watermelon. Or a society is full of love, but you may as well make your thoughts more complex. The charity of strangers and the benefits that come inexplicably are a burden if not a trap.
3、 Get satisfaction from every minute.
Being contented and happy is a noble life behavior. We should learn to get satisfaction from every minute of life. God is fair to everyone. Everyone has 24 hours a day. But we should learn to make full use of every minute and every second to gain more useful value. Just like Einstein and Sima Qian, he lived every minute of his life to the fullest and satisfied from every minute.
4、 Society will not wait for you to grow
You should not always ask for society in your own eyes. After all, a person's power is weak. The society will not change because of your actions. The earth will not stop rotating because of your complaints. There are many things that we cannot change. Such as the rotation and revolution of celestial bodies in the universe. The society will not wait for you to grow up. We have to start from our own subjective conditions and make the perfect combination of subjective and objective to create our own vast sky.
5、 Choice is more important than effort.
Blind efforts are futile. Choosing a correct goal is more important than your efforts. In the long journey of life, there are many moments that need you to go all out, but at this time, you can only find your own goal in life, as the bright light on your way forward, let that person see the thorns on the way forward, and you can better overcome the thorns and cut the thorns, and point the direction of progress to success, without winning the final success.
6、 It is more difficult to learn "stupid" than "intelligent".
In the context of today's diversification, people are facing more and more fierce competition, interpersonal communication is becoming very important at this moment, but more important is your means of dealing with various interpersonal relationships. The tactful handling method is worth learning at this moment. When you meet something you are good at, you should learn to be merciful and strive for it. But when those
When something trivial comes to you, it is necessary to improve your vigilance and make your brain highly awake. At the right time, we should also learn to pretend to be "stupid", and learn to refuse politely. We should promise to others according to our own strength, or you will lose a lot, including friends and integrity.
7、 Tired to death on the way to read all the singles.
The story of one monk carrying water to drink, two monks carrying water to drink, and three monks without water to drink has long been known. Whether in life, work or study, we should learn the relationship between cooperation and efficiency. Isn't the song "Unity is Power" a fierce struggle for the rule of fascism by millions of Chinese children? You should always remember that no matter how excellent you are and how talented you are, you are a successful person only if your talents are recognized by the society. To succeed, you should learn to be kind to others and cooperate with others. Learning to share is also a happy thing. By cooperating with others, you not only improve efficiency, but also gain more time to approach success. When the work that can be completed by one person is completed by two people, you can not fight to improve efficiency, and you can also enjoy sharing from it.
8、 Forgive but don't forget in the face of injury
A friend is a good old man who deserves his reputation. She is very friendly to people, and she is also willing to help others. In view of being single, every time she sends a letter, others will think that she is single, and there should be no big expense. Some people come to the countryside to borrow money with different excuses, and she will lend them kindly every time, because they are all acquaintances, and she thinks they must repay themselves. But many years have passed, and the friends who borrowed money from her have become rich, but she is still alone. There are still a lot of people who come to visit her, but they all go to borrow money from her. But she has become accustomed to it, and still lends the money to others after making oral promises. She also complained to me many times, and I advised her to forgive the injury but not forget it. She accepted it at that time, but did not change it afterwards.
What I want to say to my friends is: "Forgive but don't forget when facing hurt", because then you won't be hurt all the time.
9、 The pursuit of money is not vulgar.
As the saying goes, "money is not everything." In today's era of material abundance, it is absolutely impossible without money. Money cannot be exchanged for sweet love and health and happiness. But if you don't have money as the basis, how can you pursue that romantic love? If you are ill and have no money to have an injection/meal, will you recover? We should pursue money and love money, but more importantly, we should establish a correct view of money, in the spirit of "a gentleman loves money in a proper way", "money is not omnipotent, but without money is also absolutely impossible".
All said that you pursue money is not vulgar.
10、 Obedience to adversity is a required course in life.
This society is so amazing, and there are countless unfair phenomena. You and I should learn to accept adversity. There are many things that we can't do. We can't create the environment. What we prisoners can do is learn to accept. When adversity strikes, we should learn to adjust our mentality and use a positive and optimistic attitude to overcome the setbacks of the cotton team. When you find that no matter whether you are facing good times or bad times, your new life will not be distressed by it, the visitors will wave to you not far away.
I hope these words can bring a touch to your heart and make you no longer cold in this winter.