American child psychologists have found after years of research that paying attention to cultivating a child's happy personality is conducive to a child's healthy growth. How to cultivate a child's happy character? You can start from the following six aspects.

Feelings of terror about the environment and things, such as fear of needles, fear of the dark, fear of ghosts and monsters. In mild cases, the heart beats hard and the hands tremble; in severe cases, sleeplessness, insomnia, shrieking in dreams, etc. Jealousy. Showing unnaturalness, discomfort or even hostility when others are better than oneself

"There are no two leaves in the world that are exactly the same." Children have different personalities, which requires parents to choose the appropriate method of conversation according to their children's characteristics.

Making people happy is only the prelude to counseling, while making people grow is the main theme of counseling.

There is less scolding and abuse of children at present, but psychological abuse is extremely serious due to the lack of knowledge of mental health. One is to deprive children of their normal psychological needs, such as friendships, games and self-esteem.

Parents all like their children to study hard at school, put learning first, and don't fall in love. After all, they are still young, and don't know what love is and what love is. But now children receive so many complicated and precocious information. Many children talk about love behind their parents' backs. What should parents do when children fall in love early?

Parents think that children are still young, so they need to be strictly controlled, regardless of the rules will be no rules, the heart will play wild. For example, they control their children's studies, accompany them to do their homework, and impose strict requirements everywhere. Fear that the child can not do their own thing, so control the child's life, do things for the child.

Attention to the education of the child's healthy personality: in the process of formation of the child's personality, the father and the mother have a role that cannot be replaced by each other.

Attention to the education of a healthy personality of the child: in the process of formation of the child's personality, the father and the mother have an irreplaceable role. In the absence of fatherly love, the child will develop a so-called biased personality, i.e. weak, sentimental, inferiority complex, lack of perseverance.

Maslow developed the concept of self-actualization to emphasize that people are "what they can be and what they must be".