Children's age, the development of their physiological functions and psychological development is immature, often say the wrong thing, do the wrong thing, it is inevitable, in the help of adults can recognize the error, change is good. But some children do wrong and refuse to admit it, stubborn, obstinate, really angry. The child's bad behavior, parents should carefully analyze the reasons, in the understanding of the child's basis to give the correct education.

1, The child did something wrong, they do not know is wrong. Such as three- or four-year-old children, there are often clothes buttons in the wrong place, the bottom of the socks to wear to the top of the foot, the two shoes to wear the opposite phenomenon; and then a little bit older children, especially boys, naughty, good fight, sometimes the clothes will be broken, or in order to find out the truth, the newly purchased toys dismantled in a mess ...... This is a child's physical and psychological characteristics This is caused by the child's physiological and psychological characteristics, and he is completely unaware of the error. For this kind of error, parents should not blame the child too much, not to mention those words that hurt the child's self-esteem. Such as: "you really stupid", "you really useless" and so on.

But should be in the "how to do" to give specific guidance, and constantly enrich the child's life experience, to stimulate his desire to take the initiative to forge ahead in the process of overcoming the error again and again to learn more skills, learn to distinguish between right and wrong.

2, The child did something wrong refused to admit fault. Some children have strong personalities, stubborn, obstinate, capricious, self-righteous, and do not want to admit that they are wrong, for fear of losing face after admitting fault. Some children never admit their mistakes, which is related to parental education, such as children fell, parents do not educate children to walk carefully, but instead of complaining about the ground is not good; disputes between small children, parents are often to protect their own children, saying that other people are not; inconsistencies in education methods between family members, etc., are the cause of the child to do wrong and refused to admit their faults.

For such children, parents should not rush to investigate the size of the error, but should focus on how to help recognize the error, first of all, parents must change the above incorrect practices, whose fault is whose fault, in a realistic attitude, do not blame God, blame the ground, confuse the child's concept of right and wrong. Then encourage the child to tell the truth, to tell the child in a cordial manner: "It's okay to do something wrong as long as you have the courage to admit your mistakes and are willing to correct them, you are a good boy." At the same time, seriously point out: "Doing something wrong and refusing to admit it is adding insult to injury! Mommy and Daddy don't like that kind of child." After the child said to admit his fault, affirm his progress, and then help the child to analyze what is wrong, its seriousness, adverse consequences, etc., and teach the child how to do, so that he receives a lesson from it, laying the foundation for the future correct behavior.

3, The child did something wrong, afraid of being punished, do not dare to admit their mistakes. Some parents have a simple, rough education methods, either reprimand or scolding, often making the child terrified, at a loss. When the child did something wrong in order to escape the punishment of parents, had to lie to cover their faults. To help children overcome and correct this bad behavior, parents must change the bad education methods, adhere to the positive education.

Parental system style must not, democratic family education is most conducive to the formation of good quality children. Although the child is small, but also has his desire for independence, self-esteem, the child did something wrong, parents take the practice of scolding the child is a failure of the education method. Parents should hold a calm attitude, analyze the reasons for the child to do wrong, this focus on the motive, the principle of light consequences, forgive the child due to physical and psychological factors and lack of experience caused by the fault. After all, the child is a child, but its behavior, moral errors should be unceremoniously given severe criticism, never condone, in order to help the child to distinguish between right and wrong, enhance the ability to make moral judgments, and make fewer mistakes.