It was a happy thing that the child went to primary school. However, after coming back from school for several days in succession, the original bright smiling face was gloomy, and the whole evening was also surprisingly quiet. In the morning, school was also changed from the previous enthusiasm and procrastination, as if I didn't want to go to school.

After understanding, I learned that because my baby is quiet and delicate, she has been bullied by several tall boys in her class recently. As a parent, how can I help her out of this dilemma?

01

Guide the child to express his grievances and vent his bad emotions. From the child's expression, we can see that he is in a very bad mood. After being bullied, he is very aggrieved and feels useless. This situation is very bad. Parents should guide children to tell their grievances, uneasiness and anger

02

Analyze the reason for being bullied with the child (relatively quiet and elegant), and explore the solution to the problem. After the child has confided, guide the child to analyze the reason for being bullied rationally, and discuss the solution to the problem together.

03

Encourage children to solve problems by themselves: children will have to survive in society in the future, and many things need to be faced by themselves. Therefore, children are encouraged to find ways to solve this problem and improve their self-confidence in this way.

04

Encourage children to face problems together with the help of small partners. The power of peers can effectively deter students who bully the weak. Therefore, children are encouraged to seek the help of friendship

05

The parents communicate with the head teacher and ask the head teacher to help the child solve the problem: although the child is allowed to face it by himself, proper supervision and protection are inevitable. Communicate with the child's head teacher to let him pay attention to the child's handling of the whole event and avoid injury. Note: It is not a complaint, but only a class teacher to solve the problem.

06

If the situation is serious (violent incident), parents can contact the other parent directly, communicate and negotiate the way to solve the problem. Once a serious incident occurs, it is necessary for both parents to negotiate.

07

Communicate with the child in time to understand the progress of the matter. Affirm the progress of children and encourage them to be confident and self-reliant.