Parents think that children are still young, so they need to be strictly controlled, regardless of the rules will be no rules, the heart will play wild. For example, they control their children's studies, accompany them to do their homework, and impose strict requirements everywhere. Fear that the child can not do their own thing, so control the child's life, do things for the child.

Many parents of adolescent children still treat their children as "children", making substitutions and making decisions, while the physical and mental development of adolescent children is much faster than in the past, posing new challenges to parents.

Attention to the education of the child's healthy personality: in the process of formation of the child's personality, the father and the mother have a role that cannot be replaced by each other.